The Hottest New Activity in Ottawa: Archery Games

By Andrea Lie

Archery has been on our “to-try list” for a while now. We had the perfect opportunity to do so this weekend at the newly opened Archery Games, located at 1860 Bank St, Unit #3B near the corner of Bank Street and Walkley Road. 

My nieces, aged 10 and 12, had some prior archery experience while my 11-year-old daughter and I had none. We channeled our inner Katniss Everdeen and Once Upon a Time’s Snow White and headed to the facility.

We were greeted and asked to sign waivers, and we learned about what would happen in the next 75 minutes. The previous group’s game was well underway so we got to witness the arrows flying and the game in action. We were happy to learn you don’t need experience because you are given time to hit practice targets and learn how to properly hold your bow. Everyone’s first few tries were flops but we got the hang of it and began hitting the targets.

Brian Seto, Marketing Director and Co-Owner, explains, “It’s understandable to be nervous about being hit by an arrow but you soon realize it doesn’t hurt.” Any apprehension of it hurting is put to rest when you learn that the tips of the arrows are padded with marshmallow-shaped pads. You are offered an arm guard for your bow-holding arm to protect your skin from the recoil of the elastic band and you wear a paintball helmet during game play at all times. Inspection of the equipment is done regularly to ensure safety of the competitors and the Games Master explains and enforces the rules during the game.

While the girls and I were waiting I could see them eyeing the competition. They were a bit concerned about playing against adults. However, once the games began, I learned this was not a game of brawn, but a game of speed and skill. They had the advantage of hiding better behind the pillars and moving quickly. We played different games and learned new rules for each, switched teams and actually won a few. In the second half of the game we all began to be a bit more aggressive in our play. The taunting between us began and we laughed the entire time. 

Parents are always looking for new and fun ideas for birthday parties and this would be a crowd pleaser! There are large tables which can be used for food and cake and the birthday girl/boy will receive a free t-shirt. At present, you must be 10 and up to participate in the action at Archery Games which is largely due to the ability to be strong enough to fully draw the arrow. If you have a younger group, Brian invites you to contact him to try it out first. This activity would also be a great team-building experience or an active date night!

Each session costs $24 + tax and duration is 75 minutes total. You need 8 players minimum for a game and the maximum is 20 players. You can book yourself, a few people or reserve an entire game online. You’ll need clean running shoes and clothes you can move easily in – there is a lot of quickly trying to dodge arrows!

Let’s just say that my nieces and daughter told me that when I’m writing this article I should say only good things and that it was AWESOME from beginning to end. They have challenged their aunts and uncles to a game so we’ll be heading back. So there you have it - straight from the mouths of the youth – they recommend it! 

Thank-you to Archery Games for this fun experience. It was so fun!

Disclaimer: we got to try Archery Games for no cost. All opinions are my own AND my kids! :)

Ottawa: A Tourist in My Own City

by Angèle Alain

A few weeks ago, my eleven year old daughter’s second cousin came to visit. It was her first time in Ottawa, so there were many things she wanted to see.  We went to Calypso Water Park, Papanack Zoo and Ikea (you’d be surprised how fun it is for tweens).  I think the most interesting day, however, was when we showed her around downtown.  One of us was a true tourist while the rest of us simply played the part. 

Lazing around at Ikea

Lazing around at Ikea

When was the last time I was a tourist in my own city? My family and I travel the world in search of beautiful cities, yet we rarely stop to appreciate the beauty of our own. So on a hot day in August, I looked at Ottawa through the eyes of an 11 year-old tourist. And boy was there a lot to take in.

Maman the Spider

Maman the Spider

We parked in the ByWard Market and walked straight to Maman, the spider. I took photos of the girls standing under it surrounded by other tourists doing the same. Have you ever done a 360 degree turn while standing under the spider? The view is breathtaking: the art gallery, the cathedral, the old buildings on Sussex, the Cenotaph and Major’s Hill Park with the Parliament buildings in the background. Who knew?

We then walked around the National Gallery of Canada to check out the architecture and the view from the inside balconies (we got a free pin from the admissions desk).  The wide steps are a lot of fun and, I imagine, could provide many hours of entertainment for children of all ages. We also enjoyed wandering around the boutique, where I was able to talk to the girls about art history. 

National Gallery of Canada

National Gallery of Canada

We then crossed the street to visit the Cathedral. After visiting many churches across the world, I can say that this one, although not old at all, is colourful and impressive in its own way. Its ornate decor and detailed stained glass windows are something to see. The view from its busy front steps is also quite lovely and, as it seems, a great backdrop for family photos and selfies.

The locks below

The locks below

We made our way to Major’s Hill Park, where people were lounging around and having picnics. I admit I’ve never been in the park when it isn’t full of festival vendors; I think we forget it’s even a park. Plus, the view of the Peace tower and the Chateau Laurier looks like it belongs in a travel magazine, even when the Parliament buildings are undergoing restoration work. We took the path that led us to the locks, where the girls loved watching the boat go up the water elevator. Not surprising that we weren’t the only ones interested in this; who doesn’t like watching boats magically go up and down?  

Tea at Zoe's Lounge

Tea at Zoe's Lounge

Next up was tea time at Zoé’s Lounge in the Chateau Laurier. I’ve done this before with my daughter and it’s always a hit. No need to dress up (but you can!) and no need to go all out with the tea time menu (but you can!). This time, we had cold drinks and deserts off the regular menu. But if this isn’t for you, one of the waiters mentioned that they love having people walk in with their children for a glass of water –everyone is always welcomed. 

Finally, we enjoyed the Rideau Canal from the Wellington Street bridge and walked around the ByWard Market, looking at crafts and souvenirs. We purchased personalized name bracelets (deemed the best souvenir) and stopped for a Beaver Tail.  I laughed when our guest thought she’d be eating a real beaver tail, forgetting that it is genuinely an Ottawa treat.  Which reminded me: next time, she should visit Ottawa in winter…  

It was a fantastic day, and we could have done so much more. But wandering the streets of our downtown core was an eye opening experience. As parents, we think to show our toddlers their city but as the years go by, we often don’t bring them to visit unless we go somewhere or do something specific.  As I learned, it’s well worth being a tourist in your own city.  

Angèle is what you call an opportunistic traveler: there isn’t a travel opportunity she’ll pass up. She caught the travel bug early in life, and it became serious after her first trip to London is 2006. Since then, she’s traveled the world with her husband and daughter, yet still finds time to do many interesting things in our city. 

10 Ways to do Camping Right

By Misty Pratt

We recently returned from a family camping trip, and I enjoyed observing the habits and behaviours of other campers. In such close proximity, how can you not? Your entire life is on display - from the sandy/dripping clothes you leave hanging on the line, to the screaming night terrors your kids have at 1 a.m., to the domestic disputes that even the bears can hear.

I noted a few ways in which some campers seem to do things right (and by right, I mean very, very wrong):

  1. Arrive at your campsite after dark. Make a lot of noise setting up camp, and shine every bright light you have in all directions. 
  2. Bring your dog, tie them up to the tree and then head to the beach for a day of sand and sun. Hear that gentle breeze traveling across the open waters? No, actually, it's the howling of your mutt left behind at the campsite.
  3. After your day of sand and sun, make sure to bathe your toddler in one of the comfort station sinks. It's actually the best place to do it, as you don't need to worry about them slipping in the shower stalls - there's only a slight risk of them slipping off the counter and falling to their death.
  4. If you're traveling in style (aka, a camping trailer or RV), make sure to back up over all the trees and plants when you're parking Bertha. It promotes new growth.
  5. For said trailer, be sure to drain your holding tank into the nearby bushes. It's fantastic fertilizer for the local flora and fauna.
  6. Camping dishes are such a pain - you have to boil the water, mix it with cool water, and then have an EXTRA bucket for rinsing. A much easier method is to wash all your dishes at the water spout. No one minds the bits of food that get left behind at the source of their drinking water.
  7. Make sure to play music, all day and night.
  8. Berate your children loudly. Call them names, and make sure other campers know that corporal punishment is really the best option (positive parenting...what the heck is that?)
  9. To start a fire, drag in logs from some nearby bush and then pour lighter fluid all over them.
  10. The "quiet after 10 p.m. rule" is actually just a guideline. It's much better to gauge quiet time by the number of beers you've had to drink (3 beers = early night; 12 beers = 3 a.m.?)

These are all real-life examples of the ways in which people like to camp in our provincial parks. I've witnessed them all. Hold me.

What's your biggest pet peeve while camping with others? If you say "sanctimonious people who write passive-aggressive articles about other families when they get home from camping," you have a completely valid point ;)

Moms: the one thing you can do to save your sanity

by Misty Pratt

The other day I woke up early. It wasn't a "drag myself out of bed" morning. It was a "bounce up and sing" kind of morning - I was bright eyed and bushy tailed! I snuck around the sleepy house, taking a shower and preparing my lunch. By the time I was ready to head into the office it was 7:00 a.m. My husband and kids were still snoring peacefully as I quietly latched the door behind me.

"I'm at work early!" I thought. "I can actually get SO much done!" The office was quiet and dark (when you work for the gov, anytime before 8am is considered "early")

I checked my phone and saw a text message from my husband (Darcy is our dog, by the way):

I got a little worried. Why did he want me to call home? I dialed the number, and right away a plaintive little 2 year-old voice came on the line: "Hi Mommy! Why didn't you hug and kiss me goodbye this morning?" Soon it was the 5 year-old: "How could you leave like that? Don't you know you're supposed to wake me up to say goodbye? Never do that again!" All very tearful, heartfelt pleas from tiny little people that exited my womb not so many years ago.

My great mood crashed. The guilt set in, and soon I was picturing the day when both girls would be in therapy. "Our mom was never there for us. She would leave first thing in the morning, and wouldn't be home until late..." Drug addiction, eating disorders, bad relationships - I could see the future, and it was bleak. 

Soon enough I had whipped myself into such a state, I couldn't even stomach a sip of the Grande Caramel Macchiato I had so lovingly purchased from Starbucks.

But....suddenly I stopped myself.

NO, I would NOT ruin this beautiful morning when I was finally feeling bushy-tailed and eager for 8 hours of soul-sucking government work to begin. I chose to do something - the ONE THING MOTHERS CAN DO TO SAVE OUR SANITY.

I'm talking to all Moms - the working-at-home moms, the stay-at-home moms, the working-while-staying-at-home moms and the everything-in-between moms.

I let go of the guilt.

"But HOW, Misty, HOW can you so easily push this guilt aside and get on with your caramel macchiato?"

Recently, a friend (and amazing woman) told me something mind-blowing. Something totally life-altering, that I had trouble wrapping my head around it.

Guilt is a choice.

Yup, a choice. All that guilt we felt taking the epidural during childbirth, giving up on breastfeeding, feeding our child solids before 6 months of age, locking ourselves in the bathroom for moments of quiet time, shipping the kid off to daycare, neglecting to notice the time one kid broke their arm (ok, 12 hours later we figured it out!), shoving cookies into our children's small, pudgy hands so that they'd shut up for 5 minutes in the car, and on, and on. Just insert your reason for guilt HERE: 

And then let it go.

You can choose to feel guilty, or you can choose to get on with life, and let your children figure things out for themselves. 

Whatever way you have birthed, fed, diapered, clothed, or schooled your child, is the RIGHT way. Because you did it with love.

So cheers to a guilt-free life for all the Mommies out there...or at least until the next time the kid falls off the twirly slide and ends up at the children's hospital ;)

Peace


Buy Nothing Ottawa

By Andrea Lie

Imagine a world where a perfect stranger gives you a new bicycle for your child because theirs has been outgrown. A community where a neighbour comes over to change your tire for you because they saw your desperate plea for help in your time of need. Perhaps your money didn't stretch as far as you'd hoped this month and you need a gift for a birthday party your child will be attending. To your surprise, someone has offered you an age-appropriate gift because their child received duplicates at their party. And all of these donations happened simply because you asked.

Giving

It may seem far-fetched. Nothing warms my heart more than seeing these types of exchanges happen every day as a result of the Buy Nothing Project. This is a world-wide project on a grand scal,e which filters right down to sections of our own communities. To understand the vision and reason behind the project you can learn more here.

There are regular and weekly initiatives for giving in the Barrhaven group, of which I'm a member. For example, every Wednesday you are invited to post your "wish". Your wish is something you need or want. It can be an item or it can be a service. It can be something as small as a can of food or as big as a tent. In fact, there is no limit to what you can ask for. If another member can fill your wish you arrange for collection. There are also "round robins," which circulate through your neighbourhood and can include bags of clothes you pick and choose from, jewellry you sift through or books that pass through hands of those who signed up. You take a few and give a few before passing the lot onto the next person.

I've had so many wishes that I have been able to fill, and needs of my own that have been filled. Our garage houses two bikes that were given to us. Almost our entire camping kitchen set was donated to us. I have passed on bags of children's clothes to fit a child for every season of the year. I have given appliances, bags, decorations, picture frames and loads of toys. I return to work in the Fall and have acquired some appropriate work clothes as a result of a round robin. I'm of the mindset: give and ye shall receive. However, it is made clear that you do not need to give to receive. 

Have something to give? Take a photo of it and post it in the group. Give it a bit of time for people to express interest then choose someone to give it to. You can pick someone at random or choose someone for a reason. It's your item - you choose how to give it away.

There are a number of Facebook groups in Ottawa which you are free to join depending on your address. If your area isn't represented yet, you are invited to start one and the website teaches you how

To date, here are the groups available in Ottawa you can request to join:

Kanata – Kanata North 
Kanata – Kanata South 
Nepean – Nepean East 
Nepean – Nepean West 
Orléans – Orléans East
Orléans – Orléans West
Ottawa – Alta Vista/Hunt Club
Ottawa – Barrhaven North 
Ottawa – Bells Corners 
Ottawa – Britannia/Westboro 
Ottawa – Ottawa (Downtown) 
Ottawa – Pineview/Blackburn 
Ottawa – Riverside South/Findlay Creek/Greely 
Ottawa – St Laurent West 
Ottawa – St Laurent East 
Ottawa – Stittsville 
Ottawa – Stonebridge 

I invite you to stop and imagine something for a minute. What if this project became mainstream? What if, in the future, this was the first place we went to acquire something we were in need of? Imagine the ripple effect this would have on the economy, in our personal finances and in our community. 

The "back-to-school" financial burden is approaching  - what if we were able to acquire what we need through this project and BUY NOTHING?