WE Day Ottawa & The WE Movement

The morning of November 9th I woke up to somber political news from south of the border.  Like many, I was left feeling shocked, confused, scared, and uneasy. I also didn’t know how to share the news with my eight-year-old daughter, who was greatly interested in the possibility of a female president of the United States.

I spoke to my disappointed daughter about the fact that people will work together for the greater good under the new American presidency because that’s what good people do - but I remained doubtful. There was good news that morning though; my daughter would be joining me as a Junior Reporter at our first ever WE Day. She was very excited to be going, especially once she heard Prime Minister Justin Trudeau would be speaking.

Until that day, I had only heard about the WE Day events that are held across Canada (and the US) every year, but I had never attended. I had heard kids at my daughter’s bus stop talk about how excited they were to go and how inspired they were once the event was over. I knew the youth-focused event consisted of musicians, actors and well known public figures, but what I didn’t realize is that WE Day is a part of a powerful movement that brings people together and gives them tools and resources to change the world.

WE “engages and empowers youth to lead through service, build compassionate communities and transform participants into active world-changers in the process.”

WE Day Ottawa opened with Governor General David Johnston entering the stage with a joyful little dance that made everyone smile. He explained what the day was all about.  Co-hosted by E! hosts Tyrone Edwards and Chloe Wilde as well as award-winning singer-song writer, Jully Black and Canadian TV Host Maripier Morin, the motivational day kicked off with a positive and uplifting vibe that made everyone in the Canadian Tire Centre applaud, cheer and smile.

Prime Minister Justin Trudeau

Every adult in the room hung onto Prime Minister Trudeau’s words that morning. Everyone listened as he told us, “ no matter one’s age – we all have a responsibility to take a positive role in shaping the future of Canada and the world.”

WE Are Canada

Prime Minister Trudeau also spoke about an exciting new WE initiative called #WEAreCanada. In celebration of Canada’s 150th birthday, WE has created a bilingual educational curriculum that will directly engage millions of young Canadians to focus on making local, national and international impacts. For every We Are Canada Pledge made at WE.ca, $10 will be donated to support WE’s local and global programs. The #WeAreCanada movement is a great way for Canada's youth to celebrate our country’s unique diversity and culture.

Paula Abdul, onstage at WE Day Ottawa

Paula Abdul

Throughout the day we heard from numerous motivational speakers including American singer-songwriter, Paula Abdul, who talked about making the things we want to do possible. Paula talked about how her passion to be a dancer superseded the negative comments she received and that her passion is what led her to be a cheerleader for the Lakers, which in effect opened the doors to future opportunities. She also emphasized the fact that we need to lift each other up and make each other better.

Inspiring speakers and performers of WE Day Ottawa

The rest of the day followed the same principle – to lift each other up, help one another and spread love and acceptance. Margaret Trudeau spoke about mental health stigma and shared stories from her own battle with bipolar disorder.

Other inspirational speakers included Rick Hansen, Jacob Hoggard, Michael Downie (brother of Gord Downie) and the sisters of Chanie Wenjack. We also heard empowering speeches from the 17-year old author of Kakuma Girls, Clare Morneau, who spoke about the stories she collected for the book from girls in the Kakuma Refugee Camp, and artist and Make-A-Wish recipient, Annie Bartlett.

KaliAndrews Dance Company

Intermixed with the inspirational and philanthropic messages and stories were uplifting performances from Classified, Serena Ryder, Tyler Shaw and Hedley.

The WE co-founders, Craig and Marc Keilburger spoke about the amazing achievements made by WE Day youth activists and energized the crowd with their passion to promote positive change at the community and global levels.

Craig and Marc Keilburger, co-Founders of WE

At the end of the day, the message I took away from my time at WE Day Ottawa was that the world can be changed by just one person - and it starts with our youth. In addition to taking the time to familiarize ourselves and our children with the issues that are affecting the global community, we need to also create positive change in our own neighbourhoods, including helping our kids #RiseAbove cyberbullying.

Anyone can participate in the WE Movement – all it takes is a commitment to make change in the world. And what better time to work toward positive changes in our world then right now!

In the words of my Junior Reporter, “WE day is a day where people inspire other people and where people talk a lot about the good things they do, and not the bad things they do. If you go, you will see people on stage and people cheering. You will feel inspired too.”

The WE Movement celebrates people coming together. Did you know you can’t buy a ticket to WE Day? People (mostly youth) earn their ticket by taking action on one local or one global cause. WE Day celebrates these changes and encourages more people to join in and participate.

WE Families

It’s for that reason that Kids in the Capital has decided to become a WE Families Ambassador. What does that mean? It means we have committed to raise kids to care, to be compassionate and to make a difference locally and globally.  WE provided us with a kit to get started with activities that are fun, easy and will make a difference.

At home we talk about global issues of inequality and homelessness. We work together to see what we can do to make changes close to us that could affect the world at large. We donate to food banks and volunteer when possible and where needed.

We also make environmental issues a priority through the WE Take Charge campaign by setting our thermostat up two degrees in the summer and down in the winter (and discussing why this matters). We recycle, donate and reuse everything possible and are vigilant of our water usage and make conscious conservation efforts such as using a rain barrel to water flowers in the summer.

Craig Keilburger and Jacob Hoggard talking about how to get families involved with the WE Movement

There are so many things families can do to bring the WE Movement into their homes and encourage children to learn about the world around them, teach them how their actions impact others, and show them that what they do matters to the world at large. For more information on how you can get your family involved in the WE Movement visit: https://www.we.org/we-at-home/we-families/ 

2017 Holiday Gift Guide and Giveaway

At Kids in the Capital we love to help our readers by answering questions about places to visit, things to do, and where to shop with the family in the National Capital Region. This holiday season we are excited to be solving your gift giving dilemmas by providing you with an exclusive look at some of our favourite local businesses!

Stay tuned throughout the month of November, as our brand founders share their unique gift ideas, holiday traditions and more! 

Without further ado, we are so happy to introduce these fantastic Canadian businesses to our 2017 holiday gift guide:

Saunders Farm

Canadian Museum of Nature

Ooka Island

Tag Along Toys

To kick things off, we have put together an amazing giveaway, featuring gifts that are sure to get your holiday shopping off to the right start.

TWO families are set to win:

  • $50 gift card to Tag Along Toys
  • Full family admission (including special exhibits) to Museum of Nature
  • Annual family pass to Saunders Farm (including Haunting Season)
  • One year subscription to Ooka Island & set of books

Enter now using Rafflecopter, and tweet about this giveaway every day for extra entries! Contest closes Wednesday November 30th at 12 p.m. EST. Contest is only open to Ottawa-area residents. Good luck, and happy shopping!!

Santa Claus Parades in Ottawa

While some houses in your neighbourhood may still be sporting a jack ‘o lantern, Christmas is coming and that means Santa Claus parades will be popping up all around Ottawa!

2016 Santa Claus Parades in Ottawa

Help Santa Toy Parade
http://toyparade.ca/
Saturday, November 19th at 11 a.m.

The Ottawa Professional Fire Fighter’s Association has helped organize the Help Santa Toy Parade since 1969. This is the big one that takes place downtown and is favoured by many in the Ottawa area. Firefighters collect new toys and cash donations along the route. Can’t bring your toy donation? They will also accept new toys at any Ottawa Fire Station until mid-December. Depending on your spot along the route it can get busy, so keep this in mind if your family doesn’t like crowds.

Santa’s Parade of Lights
paradeoflights.org
Saturday November 26th at 6 p.m.

Also hosted by the Ottawa Professional Firefighters Association, this parade takes place on St-Joseph, Blvd. in Orleans. Toys and cash donations will be collected by firefighters along the route.

Stittsville Parade of Lights
stittsvilleva.com/parade-of-lights
Saturday, November 26th at 6 p.m.

This parade is a favourite community event. The parade proceeds south down Main Street to Village Square. Parade goers are welcome to stay for the lighting of Village Square Park and to warm up with some hot chocolate.

Kanata Santa Claus Parade
http://www.hazeldeanmall.com/events/hazeldean-2016-hazeldean-mall-santa-claus-parade Saturday, November 12th at 10 a.m.

The Kanata parade (a.k.a the Hazeldean Mall Santa Claus Parade) is presented by the Kanata-Hazeldean Lions Club in cooperation with the Kanata Sports Club. The parade starts at Terry Fox and Castlefrank, moves along Castlefrank to Abbeyhill and then on to the Hazeldean Mall. Nonperishable food donations to the Kanata Food Cupboard are appreciated.

Barrhaven Lions Santa Parade
santaclausbarrhaven.com
Sunday, November 20th at 5:30 p.m. 

The annual Barrhaven Lions Club Light Up the Night Santa Claus Parade runs down Strandherd Drive. Forgot to pack snacks? There will be food vendors along the route.

Richmond Village Santa Claus Parade
http://richmondvillage.ca/event/santa-parade/
Saturday, December 3rd at 5:30 p.m.

Carp Santa Claus Parade
Saturday, December 10th at 12 noon
Parade route starts at The Diefenbunker, 3911 Carp Road, and follows Carp Road.

Carleton Place Santa Claus Parade
http://downtowncarletonplace.com/the-downtown-carleton-place-santa-claus-parade/ 
Saturday, November 26th at 5 p.m.

Other Christmas Activities in Ottawa

Besides parades, there are many Christmas activities in Ottawa, including:

Alight the Night
http://www.uppercanadavillage.com/events/alight-at-night/
December 2nd to January 7th
Upper Canada Village

Step back in time while walking around the beautifully lit heritage buildings, trees and fences of Upper Canada Village. There are festive activities and a chance to meet Santa Claus all throughout the month of December leading up to Christmas.

Almonte’s Light Up the Night!
lightupthenightalmonte.com
Friday, December 2nd at 7 p.m.

Bundle up, this is an open-air concert and fireworks display on Main Street in Almonte. Now in its 26th year this night is full of music and memorable outdoor festivities.

Manotick - Olde Fashioned Christmas
http://manotickvillage.com/event/olde-fashioned-christmas/
Saturday, December 3rd and Sunday, December 4th

Horse drawn wagon rides with Father and Mary Christmas to sunset carolling, this wonderful weekend is full of traditional events not to be missed. 

Merrickville - Breakfast with Santa
christmasinmerrickville.ca
Saturday, December 3rd from 8:30 a.m. to 10:30 a.m.

Sponsored by the Merrickville Royal Canadian Legion this is one of the most popular Christmas-in-Merrickville events. You and your family can enjoy a hearty, home-style breakfast with Santa at the Royal Canadian Legion. After breakfast, your children can share their wish list with Santa, or you can enjoy a horse-drawn wagon ride as a family. The wagon stop is right outside the Legion’s door. Donations for the horse drawn wagon rides are appreciated. Breakfast with Santa costs $6.00 for adults and $3.00 for children ages 12 and under; children ages 6 and under are free.

Cumberland Heritage Village Museum Vintage Village of Lights ottawa.ca/en/liveculture/museums/cumberlandmuseum

30,000 Christmas lights, decorations everywhere, a gigantic reindeer and sleigh and – of course – a visit with Santa Claus in his workshop! Kids will have fun sledding, playing broomball or street hockey, making a snow globe, decorating gingerbread, and sending your Christmas wish list to Santa via telegram. Regular admission applies. 

A Nepean Christmas
ottawa.ca/en/liveculture/museums/nepeanmuseum
Saturday, December 11th from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m.

Grab the family and head to the Nepean Museum with kids to have fun learning about old-fashioned Christmas traditions. Take home a gingerbread house and a Christmas card, and maybe even see Santa Claus! Cost: $6.15/individual, $10.20/pair, $16.35/family.

Proulx Maple & Berry Farm Winterfest
http://proulxberryfarm.com/ 
December 1st to the 18th

Drop by Proulx Maple & Berry Farm in Cumberland for a beautiful display of Christmas lights, a photo booth, wagon rides and more! Visit their website for more informaton. 

The CP Holiday Train
cpr.ca/en/community/holiday-train
November 27th: Perth (7:40 p.m.), Smiths Falls (6:20 p.m.) and Merrickville (4:45 p.m.)

You may not see Santa here, but this is a great holiday event all the same. The CP Holiday Train started in 1999 and raises money and food for the Food Bank. Over the three weeks of the program, musicians will play more than 150 concerts from a boxcar that’s been turned into a travelling stage.

Around Ottawa: The J. Henry Tweed Conservation Area

These days it is widely known that children thrive in nature-based settings that offer the opportunity for self-directed play and exploration. Attributes like attention span and imagination strengthen and grow when children are routinely engaged outdoors. Being in green spaces away from noise, distraction and disruption is not just good for children, but for us moms and dads too. Our family can attest to that!

You see, in our house the walls literally vibrate with the energy of two tiny humans. Multiply this energy by one hundred on the days this toddler/preschooler pair haven’t gotten their daily dose of mother nature. One of the values that guides our family is spending time in nature, and we get ourselves outside almost every day. No matter the weather. No matter the mood. 

Near our home is a peaceful sanctuary call the J. Henry Tweed Conservation Area.  This 16 acres of green space is located in the village of Russell. During our most recent adventure to this area we walked under an umbrella of fall colors and dug our feet into the blanket of foliage that covered the ground. The pockets and buckets of my two explorers quickly filled with leaves and sticks, interesting rocks and pine cones. Rain showers the night before left perfect puddles for splashing and small waterways in which to sail tiny twigs. Fallen trees became tightropes, and their their little boots teetered along. Large rocks became the perfect picnic spot to stop for a snack and watch the squirrels and birds at work. The foot bridges are a favorite spot and make an idyllic backdrop for candid photos. 

The trails in the conservation area are wide and a sturdy stroller would have no problem making its way. Its pathways are mainly flat but there are a few hills. This area is accessible year round and is beautifully maintained. It is an ideal spot for children to explore and discover an abundance of forest treasures. I must add that another wonderful feature of this area is it links to a paved walking/biking path. This path is approximately 7.2 km in length and connects the communities of Russell and Embrun. This is a well-used and well-loved path. There are many benches along the path, as well as a few public playgrounds to access.

With the energy burn completed after almost two hours of trekking around we walked for home, rubber boots squishing and minds clear. Together we discussed what to do with the treasures we scooped up from the forest floor. Many will end up on our seasons shelve, a small display of nature based items that changes with the seasons - this helps my children learn the rhythm of nature that surrounds them. The remainder will become “wilderness art’ and be taped and glued to colorful construction paper and placed on display until our next adventure into the J. Henry Tweed Conservation Area.

Like so many of the green spaces in and around Ottawa, this is a place that cultivates centeredness and calmness, and connects children to a sense of wonder and discovery. 

Julianne is the mother of a toddler and a preschooler, a Masters educated Social Worker, and a Certified Positive Parent Educator. Read more about her work at www.parentingcalmlivingconnected.ca 

Birthday Party Gifting: Teaching Your Child Gratitude

My daughter sits on a chair, her little friends surrounding her. Everyone is pushing to the front, trying to get THEIR gift to the special birthday girl. She reaches for a present from someone close to her, and hands me the card. I show her the handmade drawing, while her little friend watches on in anticipation. My daughter slowly rips open the paper, stares in shock at the gift and yells,

"I don't LIKE this! This is stupid!" She throws the present to the floor and moves on to the next one.

My whole body freezes. I can feel the heat rushing to my cheeks, and I turn to look at the little girl who has gifted this unwanted toy. Her big eyes look at me in confusion. Why didn't my daughter like her present?

I immediately stop my daughter, and say "of course you love this toy. We always say thank you to our friends for a gift. I want you to say thank you." After a few minutes of prompting and cajoling, she eventually says thank you. But I worry it's too little, too late.

After the exodus of kids from my house, my daughter gets a stern talking to. We tell her that yes, it's possible in our lifetime we will receive an unwanted gift (tacky hand knit sweaters anyone?) But it is never, ever acceptable to be ungrateful for something that has been given to us. I can hear myself droning on about "kids who have nothing," war, poverty.....aaaaand, I've lost her. She runs off to play with the toy that she originally threw to the floor. I'm starting to think 4 year-olds may be certifiable.

I could have left it at that. In fact, I could have ignored the situation entirely, and just laughed about how "kids will be kids." But that's not the way this mama rolls.

The first thing I did was poll some close Facebook friends, and the answers I got were thoughtful and kind. I heard stories of other kids being shamed at birthday parties because of their gifts, and dealing with the sadness and confusion that results. 

I put my 4 year-old down for a nap, and immediately typed out an email apologizing to the mother of this young girl. I had no idea if the little girl felt sad about it, and I felt that it was important that she get a heads up.

After the little monster (I mean, daughter) woke from her nap, we again chatted about the incident. On suggestion from one of my Facebook friends, I sat down with my daughter to write an apology note, and invite the little friend over to play with the gift. 

Later that evening, I received a reply from the mother. She was very grateful for my email, as her daughter had indeed been upset and worried. Luckily she perked up when she heard that my daughter was already enjoying her gift. The card was received at school the next day, and my little one came home with a cute drawing that the two girls made together. The world was right again.

I'm not sure what my daughter has taken away from this situation, but I know I sure learned a lot. It could have been easy for me to just move on, and tack it up to age-appropriate behaviour. While it's true that 3 and 4 year-olds certainly don't yet (totally) understand social norms, isn't it our job to teach that appropriate behaviour to them? And even more important, I feel that this fiasco was a seriously good time to instill a sense of kindness and gratitude that I want to see my kids practicing as they grow up.

Next time, we'll be having a chat about gratitude BEFORE the present opening begins.

Has your child ever reacted the same to a gift? How did you handle it?