Learn to skate with Canskate

by Vicky Last February we went to visit Joel's cousins out in the country. They have a pond on their property which becomes a skating rink every winter. Joel borrowed a pair of skates from his cousin and eagerly wanted to join in on the hockey game. He was frustrated that he didn't know how to skate, and he didn't want me to help him.

Signing him up for skating lessons was an easy decision to make - the hard part was finding the right school. We decided on the Gloucester Skating Club, since they offered a pre-school Canskate program. It's a learn-to-skate program designed for kids 3 & 4 years of age. The kids are taught basic skating fundamentals, with a focus on continuous movement and creative play.

The student to teacher ratio is about 6:1 and the classes are offered once a week on Saturdays or Sundays for 30 minutes. It really is just the right amount of time, the kids have fun but they don't get bored or tired.

After the first lesson, I was feeling skeptical. Joel spent the entire time sitting on the ice, and wouldn't even try to get up without the teacher's help. I wasn't sure if he had a good time. But with every lesson he improved just a little bit more. It's been 6 weeks since he first started and he can get up by himself, stay up on his feet for most of the half hour, and can even skate slowly!

Skating was a huge part of my childhood, and I'm excited about taking my kids out on the rink and to the canal. It's great exercise and a wonderful way to get the whole family active.

The cost is about $96 for a 14 week session. The only gear your kids will need is a pair of skates, a helmet and a snowsuit.  Registration for the Winter 2011 session begins on November 9th, and sessions start Saturday January 8th. For more information, see the program schedule or visit the Gloucester Skating Club's website: www.gloucesterskatingclub.ca

Vicky is the mom to 4 year old son named Joel and 1 year old daughter named Mieka. You can read her blog at blog Some Kind of Wondermom.

The good ol' hockey game

by Amy Joe and I are hockey fans. Before the baby was born she owned three jerseys - An infant sized Senators jersey, a slightly bigger Team Canada jersey and a toddler sized Winnipeg Jets jersey. Yes, the Jets. My sister is determined that the baby's first real word be 'Alfie.'

Joe will tell you with pride that the day the baby was born is the day the Senators started an 11-game winning streak. The tiny baseball cap she owns, the one that says 'Born to be a Senators fan' is not a lie. She was only a few weeks old when we threw a Canada shirt on top of her sleeper and kept her awake for the Olympic gold medal games. It was never a question that she would be attending a few live hockey games, it was just a matter of getting tickets to her first one.

One day we were having a hard day at home and I needed something good to focus on and the Sens were playing the Carolina Hurricanes and I bought us tickets. Because Maggie is still little I didn't have to buy her a seat, but the game we were going to was one of the Metro Family games. The Metro Family 4-pack gets you four tickets, four hot dogs and four drinks for $99. Every game you can get seats for $15 in the Coca-Cola zone, or $40 in the Coca-Cola Zero zone, where no alcohol is allowed.

When the game was about to start and the teams came out on the ice, I could see Maggie's eyes grow wider. She was thrilled that the men she had watched on TV with her Daddy we down there, skating around.  Maggie has always loved being around people and she has fun where there are a lot of things to watch. She watched the hockey, she made friends in the row behind us, she danced to the music.

We took along some big earphones to protect her from the loud music, though we found that she took them off every time we put them on, but she also didn't seem bothered by the noise. I loved watching her take everything in and it's an experience we will definitely be repeating in the future.

Amy is mom to 8-month-old Maggie and a 4 year old schnauzer named Henry. You can read her blog at amyboughner.ca where she writes about motherhood and anything else that’s on her mind.

Birthday parties at the Farm

by Brie The excitement of our kids getting older is often tempered by the horror of having to plan another birthday party. Themes? Games? Activities? What to do.

Here's an idea.

We went to a great birthday party at the Canada Agricultural Museum this past summer. I was so impressed with the entire party. The kids had a great time and were kept busy from the moment they arrived. It would be a great location for birthday parties in the colder months, thanks to the larger indoor party room.

Want to know what we did? Since we were the first guests to arrive the kids ran around the party room and played some of the games set up, like this one where you throw the bean bag through the animals mouths.

While we waited for the other kids to arrive, my two coloured and decorated their party hats. These hats were a big hit and the girl was still wearing hers when we left the party and headed home.

With the guests all there the party leader taught the kids how to make ice cream and let them help by stirring and pouring the ingredients. When all the ingredients were mixed together the ice cream maker was turned on and we headed off for a guided tour of the farm.

The first stop was the cow barn. This picture may not look like much but it was proceeded by some very exciting back-end activity from the cows. There was the expected pointing and yelling from intrigued 3 and 4 year olds.

The tour of the barn took some time what with the kids saying hi by name to every cow we passed. A real highlight of the tour was that the kids all got to take turns brushing and petting a calf. The calf was very good natured about it all.

And just in case the kids ever need to know how to milk a cow, they had a chance to practice on this display. 

After we left the cows we toured the rest of the farm, making sure to say hi to all the animals. The kids were pretty tired by the time we made it back to the party room, but they quickly perked up with cake and yummy homemade ice cream.

Brie is the mom of a 4 year old daughter “the girl” and 2 old son “the boy”. You can read her blog at Capital Mom.

Fair Trade and Kids

by Judy Fair Trade may seem like a large, difficult topic to explain to kids, but it really isn’t. We have done presentations for groups of children as young as grade one all the way to university aged young adults, to explain what Fair Trade is and how we can get involved in Canada. Each year we get invited to new school groups to talk about Fair Trade as global issues become more and more a part of the school curriculum.

Inequitable relationships, women’s rights, global poverty--they are large scary topics for some kids, so we always scale it down to the basics, especially for the little kids. Sometimes we will focus on a specific industry, like chocolate. We chose this example, mainly because most of the kids have eaten a chocolate bar, and it is something for them to relate to, regardless of their age. There is also a great YouTube channel from one of our chocolate companies that have videos that you can watch with your kids.

Other times we talk about some of the principles of Fair Trade and break them down. This is a great way to talk about Fair Trade with your kids, as you can focus on  multiple principles if the kids are really engaged, or move on if they are having a hard time understanding it.  Don’t try to tackle all of these things at once.  Some are more suited to younger  or older ages, so focus on the topics most suited to your kids.  We always find at presentations and in the store, if kids aren’t engaged or are overwhelmed they won’t carry the message with them.  Pick one or two you feel passionate about or they feel passionate about and it take from there.  

Some of the principles of Fair Trade for talking to kids:

- Creating jobs for people who aren’t usually hired - Caring for the environment - Capacity building - Paying a fair price - Giving women & girls the same opportunities as men & boys - Building sustainable long-term relationships - Supporting good working conditions

Taking a closer look at each principle we can see how to introduce the topic to our kids.When talking about creating jobs for people who aren’t usually hired, it gives us a chance to talk about the realities in other countries. Many people with disabilities, whether they are physical, mental or emotional, often cannot go to school, and have a hard time getting a job. For example, one of the groups that our store deals with specifically works with artisans affected by Leprosy to help them create products, earn money, and find stable housing.

Most kids know how to care for the environment, including recycling and composting with municipal programs. Fair Traders think about the environment a lot when making products. This includes tree planting programs, using recycled materials, and using responsible farming methods. In some countries, plants that clog the rivers and cause the water ways to die, are picked and used for making unique handmade paper.  We recently had a young customer who asked her mom to buy the handmade chopsticks, because she thought it was bad for the trees to use and throwaway the ones from the take out.  She was showing her awareness at a level neither her mom nor I had thought of.  

Explaining capacity building to kids is a little more complicated, as it is one of the harder concepts to explain.  Providing artisans with capacity building can be any range of things.  One of the most common ways this is done is to ensure that people are not only able to read, but are also financial literate.  Many producer groups teach their artisans how to make budgets, do monthly accounting and develop saving schemes.  Maybe you teach your children the value of saving their allowance, setting goals and learning to reach them.  While they have the opportunity to learn from you, many of the artisans are the first in their families to have these skills.  

It sounds pretty straightforward – paying a fair price.  In Canada we have minimum wage, to ensure that everyone can earn a base rate.  Many of the countries we get our products from don’t have any minimum wages.  The wages paid in the Fair Trade system ensure that people don’t just earn an income, but they earn one with dignity and respect.  The income is enough that artisans can pay for food, clothing, healthcare, housing and education for their children.  Fair Trade organizations like Ten Thousand Villages pay their artisans 50% when the order is placed and 50% before the item ever leaves the country.  This ensures that producers have the money to pay their bills and they aren’t affected if for any reason the product can’t be sold.  

For so many girls and young women living in Canada the thought that they may not be treated the same as their male counterparts is as foreign as a country on the other side of the world.  However, in many countries women and girls aren’t given the same opportunities.  Many girls aren’t sent to school, and many women have little influence on their own futures.  Fair Trade ensures that girls can go to school, and engages women in the local economies.  It empowers women by given them an income, which is most often reinvested back into their families, homes and communities.  Over 70% of the artisans producing items for Ten Thousand Villages are women.  Shova Baroi is a great example of how earning an as a woman changed her family.

Building long term relationships that are sustainable is a key part of Fair Trade.  It is the continued relationship that ensures steady income for the artisans.  It helps the artisans to grow their businesses.  Kids most likely understand the importance of long-term relationships as it applies to their friendships.  Who is their oldest friend? Do they learn more about them as time goes on? It is the same with Fair Trade, both sides of the relationship work together to ensure the artisans can grow and learn.  Ten Thousand Villages has been doing Fair Trade since 1946, and we have been working with some of our producer groups for decades.  

Supporting good working conditions is vital for Fair Trade.  It is vital that artisans work in safe and clean conditions with no child labour.  These artisans are the reason we are talking about Fair Trade and that organizations like Ten Thousand Villages are around.  Many of our artisans use natural materials, like plant based dyes, not only because they are more traditional and accessible, but better for them.  Our chocolate producers ensure that no child labour is used in the production.  

Many of these principles overlap with each other and there are themes to have discussions around.  We often have kids ask us questions in the store and we can ask questions back.  Could they imagine working and never going to school? Or not having a chance to play with their friends?

A lot of these discussion points can be found in a book from the Fair Trade Federation, called Think Fair Trade First.   It is one of our best tools when talking to kids.  

Ten Thousand Villages stores are staffed with volunteers who are here to tell the stories of our artisans and encourage more people to learn about Fair Trade.   We are always happy to answer questions.  

Judy Lincoln is an Ottawa mom of a two year old boy, the Manager at Ten Thousand Villages Ottawa and has been committed to Fair Trade for over a decade.  There are over 100 volunteers in Ottawa who share this commitment at 1174 Bank Street and 371 Richmond Road.  Follow Ten Thousand Villages on Twitter, Facebook or read their blog.

October - what you might have missed

We blinked and it was November. Before any more time passes we thought we had better share with you some of the fun things we did in October! Did you do any of these in October too? Activities for Kids

This month we learned about scouting in the capital, taking babies to the movies, build & grow clinics at Lowe's, Miller's Farm, and a great new climbing gym. We  also spent an afternoon at the Pinto Valley Ranch, talked about musicals for kids, and the butterfly show at Carleton.

Big news and changes

This month we launched our new look, moved over to our new url and also helped launch a sister site in Calgary called Kids in Cowtown (have you told all your Calgary friends about it yet?)

Crafts, Cooking and other fun ideas

Here are some ideas to eat, play with and make! In October we shared how to bake drill cake, a great and easy noodle box for quiet time and a perfect Thanksgiving paper bag turkey craft,

Exploring the outdoors

This month we explored all kinds of great parks, trails and generally outdoorsy locations.  If you haven't already, you should make sure you check out Petrie Island in the Fall, the Mer Bleue boardwalk, a great dog park,andMcLaurin Bay before the snow is here to stay!

Great Giveaways and sponsors

We had a lot of  great giveaways in October including one for Wiggles Tickets (we hear it was amazing) and for a great show at the NAC called Trick or Treat to a Wicked Beat. We also welcomed Eko Bear as another new fabulous Kids in the Capital sponsor.

Halloween

We hope everyone had a great Halloween! To get us all ready for the fun filled (read exhausting day) we talked about all kinds of things to do for Halloween, including visiting Proulx Farm, Spooks, Spirits, & Spectacles, and forming a Halloween posse.  We also talked about some tips for Halloween including what to do with the candy , hosting a Halloween costume swap, and how to get through the day with a child who is a little bit nervous. One of our favorite posts were the helpful ideas from the Ottawa Public Library on great Halloween reads.

Meetups

We had a wonderful Halloween party at Boston Pizza Orleans on the 31st! Thanks to9 everyone who showed up and we can't wait to see the photos that Julie from Inspired Photography took. We ended up rescheduling our mom's night out to Le Nordik until November 9, so we hope that we will see lots of you there. Keep an eye out for the newest playdate schedule which will be resuming in the coming weeks. If you have any great ideas for playdate locations let us know!

Parenting Tips

With Fall and back to school comes colds and other illnesses, so9 we loved the great tips on dealing with colds and other yucky stuff.  We also talked about photo tips for Fall photos and thinking about your neighbourhood.

Social Media Mondays

We are really enjoying the Social Media Mondays we have started here. Social Media has become so important to us and so many of our readers that we like to share what we know with other parents that are just starting out in social media. This month we talked about why to blog and how to start a blog. We also talked about why twitter is a great tool for parents and how to start tweeting.  We hope these posts are helping you delve more into the world of social media!

Don't forget that we want to hear from you about the things you love to do with your kids in Ottawa. Leave us a comment or email us at kidsinthecapital(AT)gmail(DOT)com if you want to blog for Kids in the Capital!