Second-hand holidays

by Brie I love a good deal. Sometimes that means scouting the stores for sales, waiting until the item I want finally gets marked down and then grabbing it and running to the cash as fast as I can. Sometimes that means buying second-hand.

I don't have a problem with buying things other people have already owned. I love to buy my kids clothes second-hand. The way they wear their clothes only leaves me frustrated knowing I paid full price for the shirt with a blueberry stain that won't come out. Or tear in the leg. Or lost sweater. You get the idea.

I've also bought toys, baby equipment and furniture used. With the holidays coming, buying second-hand is a great way to find presents your kids and family will love without breaking the bank. Here are some of my favorite gift buying sources for shopping second-hand.

I have found great deals on clothes and toys, many of which I given to my kids as gifts, at kids consignment stores. I usually hit Boomerang Kids since it is closest to us, but I  have been know to venture further afield in search of something particular. And I am amazed by how many more stores there are now then when I was pregnant five years ago.

I like to browse online sites like Used Ottawa and Kijiji looking for to see what catches my eye. Just last week I stumbled upon a dollhouse that I ended up buying for the girl. I was looking for another present at the time, but couldn't resist the fact that I was getting it for a third of the price new. Plus I know she will love it when she finds it under the tree this year.

You never know what you will find when you shop at second-hand stores like Value Village and the Goodwill. We have quite a few toys, including a favorite barn, that my mother-in-law has scored at second-hand stores. And when a box came in the mail with 10 pairs of pants my mother-in-law had bought for my 4 year old for only a few dollars each, I was beyond impressed. They make up the bulk of her winter wardrobe, I didn't have to buy her any additional pants and they look like new.  Another reason to love my mother-in-law!

The perfect place to find little nicknack's, cheap knitting and yummy baking is at a Church bazaar. I have done quite well at Church bazaars in the past, buying some beautiful vintage jewellery for my sister and books for the kids. Last year I bought a matching hat and mitt set for my then 1 year old for $3. It made me gleeful.

Garage sales are a great place to look for holiday gifts. Yes I know it's December and there are no garage sales now, but I like to do my holiday shopping all year. One summer I hit garage sales hard and manged to buy all my Christmas gifts before labour day. I gave beautiful batik tablecloths, used books, shawls and old picture frames. I even wrapped everything in old scarves I picked up for $1 a piece.

Are any of you having a second-hand holiday this year? Where do you love to shop? What tips do you have to share?

Brie is the mom of a 4 year old daughter “the girl” and 2 old son “the boy”. You can read her blog at Capital Mom.

November : what you might have missed

November has come and gone. Here's a look back at what you might have missed in November. Activities for Kids

This month we talked about feeding our feathered friends and about introducing our kids to the symphony.

Birthday parties

There are so many great birthday party ideas in Ottawa.  This month we talked about Monkey Rock and birthday parties at the farm.

Books

This month Margaret Kirkpatrick, the Children’s Librarian at the Carlingwood Branch, told us about some of her favourite books.

Crafts and cookings

We made sushi snacks, crafted a great costume and about turned your child's art into placemats as a great gift.

Game On

We started another new monthly series on gaming for kids called Game On. This month we talked about Kinect and Dance Central.

Holidays

As we gear up for the holidays, we've talked about the Orleans parade of lights, making Christmas cards with your kids and what kinds of presents parents recommend. If you're trying to get a great holiday snap, we had part 1 and part 2 on picture perfect holiday photos. On a more serious note we also talked about ways we can make others holiday season better with some mom to mom helping.

Parenting tips

We had some great tips on taking your kids to the dentist for the first time and how to talk to your kids about Fair Trade.

Remembrance

November is a month to remember. Sara talked to us about taking our kids to the Remembrance day parade and to the War museum.

Reviews

Amy had a chance to attend a Safe Parent course and told us all about it and Sara's kids had some fun with some great craft supplies from Eko Bear.

Skates and hockey

We took our kids to a hockey games, we taught them how to skate with Canskate, and we introduced them to Timbit hockey - winter is on it's way!

Social Media Mondays

This month we talked about who to follow and what client to use on Twitter, talked about the importance of commenting on blogs,  and had a guest post on the value of Linked In.

Question of the month #7: Presents

Kids in the Capital is all about parents in Ottawa helping each other out by sharing tips and advice. Each month we ask a parenting question and we want to hear all the gems of advice you have to share. Just leave your answers in the comments! And if you have a question you’d like to see be a future question, leave it in the comments too! Question of the month #7: Presents

The holiday season is quickly approaching and for a lot of us that means presents to buy. Maybe you already know what you are buying your kids. Maybe your kids presented you with a long list of requested items. If you don't have any ideas, then read on to see what other parents recommend as their favorite childrens' gifts.

What have been some of your favorite gifts to give your kids? What gifts did you give your kids that they absolutely loved? What gifts do you think they will be thrilled to get this year?

Share with us your gift giving ideas.

Social Media Monday: are you ‘LinkedIn’?

We are very happy to welcome our first Social Media Monday guest post. We love hearing from other parents that love social media as much as we do! by Melany

This week on Social Media Monday, we’re going to explore LinkedIn and how it is a great tool for expanding your professional network and creating business opportunities for yourself.

With over 80 million members, LinkedIn is the world’s largest professional network, and according to Wikipedia, approximately every second a new member joins. People in all stages of their career use the site to connect with friends and colleagues, find experts and ideas and to explore career opportunities. It’s like a resume, a networking tool and an online resource all in one.

While you may already have an account with Facebook or Twitter, a LinkedIn account is different. The tools and resources available are designed to support career development and to help you manage your online identity to ensure it reflects the information about yourself you want prospective employers or customers to discover. Companies, recruiters and entrepreneurs all use LinkedIn to promote their business, announce job opportunities and to research prospective employees, vendors and clients. As a result, having a presence on LinkedIn is another way to make yourself or your business discoverable.

Often it is who you know, not what you know, that provides career advancement opportunities. Your next big career move, your next customer, could develop from from a chat you have with another parent on the playground or at a playgroup. LinkedIn can help you solidify those connections online so that you can keep the discussion going, strengthen those shared professional interests and broaden your professional network. If you are a mompreneur or owner of a small business, LinkedIn can help you to develop partnerships and connections to grow your business. It gives you the capability to evaluate potential business partners and vendors, and to keep in touch with past and present clients/customers.

LinkedIn also offers mobile applications for Blackberry and iPhone so you can access your connections, profiles, and network updates on the go.

Four Steps to Getting the Most Out of LinkedIn 1. Build your profile Through your LinkedIn account you can customize your profile, choose how your information is displayed, how you want to be contacted, and set your overall privacy preferences. Your profile on LinkedIn enables people to connect and reconnect with you. Use it to:

  • provide basic information about yourself
  • list your career history, education and accomplishments
  • pitch yourself or your business
  • promote the URL of your personal and/or company website, including a blog

LinkedIn integrates with several third-party applications to give you even more customization capabilities. You can stream your Twitter feed to your profile, syndicate your blog articles, upload presentations and examples from your portfolio, and lots more.

2. Make connections LinkedIn uses the 1st, 2nd and 3rd degree labels as a way to organize your connections.

Your 1st degree contacts are your direct contacts, the people you have a pre-existing relationship with, either through work, school or another shared interest. Connecting with someone on LinkedIn who isn’t a direct contact requires an introduction by a mutual contact or you inviting that person to connect with you. That person must then accept your invitation in order to become one of your 1st degree contacts.

A great first step is to sync your email contacts so that you can build your network of connections quickly from your real-world network. Then use the “People You May Know” feature to connect with others.

3. Grow your network

To grow your network on LinkedIn, a great habit to get into is to follow-up with people you meet in real-life or through other social sites like Twitter, with a request to connect on LinkedIn. To reach out to others on LinkedIn you can:

  • Use Invitations to ask people you already know in the real-world to join your LinkedIn network. You can also use People Search to find and then invite people to connect with you on LinkedIn. Select the “Add [Name] to your Network” feature found on the right side of the user’s profile to send your invitation.  
  • Ask for an introduction. The Introductions feature is great for reaching out to people you may not know directly. Having a mutual contact make the introduction on your behalf validates the request and can help put it into context.
  • If you upgrade your LinkedIn account to a premium account, you can send a message to another member via InMail™. Your message is delivered straight to the member’s LinkedIn inbox to ensure your message and contact information is kept private.

When requesting an introduction or sending an invitation to connect, personalize your message so that the recipient understands why you are contacting them. Doing so provides relevance to the request and elevates its credibility by demonstrating your sincerity in making a connection. 

4. Build Relationships Use the tools and resources available in LinkedIn to develop and sustain relationships with others.

  • Write and request Recommendations - Use this feature to reinforce your expertise and credibility as a job candidate or business owner. Invite colleagues, clients and other professional contacts to write recommendations for you that appear in your profile. Then reciprocate! These testimonials reinforce your stated work history, accomplishments and business relationships.
  • Join or Create a Group - A great way to build relationships and demonstrate your expertise is to create or join industry or shared interests groups on LinkedIn. Use LinkedIn’s Groups Directory to search for a group by industry or keyword and then submit a request to join. Once your request is accepted join in on the discussions!
  • Share your knowledge via Answers - Promote your domain expertise by answering a question posted to the LinkedIn Answers section. You can also pose a question to get fast, accurate answers from your network and other experts worldwide.
  • Research Companies - Find and explore potential companies to work for or do business with. The information you see in the company pages comes from two sources— Capital IQ, a LinkedIn partner, and LinkedIn user data. LinkedIn has indicated on its FAQs for Company pages that companies will soon be able to edit certain information on their profile, such as description, headquarters address, website and revenue.

Explore!

The above is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes using LinkedIn to promote your professional expertise and/or your business. Keep your profile updated and regularly explore LinkedIn’s many features and tools to expand your professional network and create business opportunities for yourself.

Melany is the mom of a rambunctious 15-month old girl and is a self-professed social media junkie. She blogs at melgallant.wordpress.com about motherhood, pop culture, social media, and whatever else comes to mind.  Connect with Melany via her blog, Twitter or LinkedIn.

Moms Helping Moms

by Sasha 'Tis the season for giving. And while we're busy making our lists and checking them twice, our thoughts often extend beyond friends and family to the wider community.

Giving feels good.  And if you can also clean out the closets, re-purpose outgrown kid stuff, or indulge your crafty side at the same time, then so much the better.  And with that in mind, here are some ideas for moms looking to help other moms this holiday season.

The Diaper Bag Project

It’s one of those brilliantly simple, gee-I-wish-I’d-thought-of-that ideas: collect gently used diaper bags, and the stuff that goes in ‘em, then deliver the stocked bags to women’s shelters, teen mom centres, or anywhere else you might find new moms in need.

The Diaper Bag Project is looking for gently used diaper bags, receiving blankets, newborn size sleepers, empty travel wipes cases, and empty travel size hand sanitizer bottles.  They also need new travel size vaseline/diaper creams and newborn/size 1 disposable diapers. Partial bags of diapers are OK, so it's a great use for the leftovers when your little one moves up a size.

For more information contact Erin at diaperbagproject[at]gmail[dot]com.

The Food Bank

The Food Bank - it’s not just about the food. The food bank also accepts baby care items, such as diapers and wipes. Something we like to do at the office around Christmas time is pass the hat and then a bunch of us go on a shopping spree in the baby aisle. It doubles as a team building exercise: the folks with older children reminisce, and we tease the young single guys who have no idea what babies need. Two Ottawa Moms have also started a Diaper Drive for the Ottawa Food Bank.  See their Facebook page for more information.

The Snowsuit Fund

If you’ve dusted off last year’s snowsuit and can see 3 inches of ankle between boot and suit, then consider donating it to the Snowsuit Fund. Gently used winter outerwear can be dropped off at any local Canadian Tire or Brown’s Cleaners, or at the Snowsuit Fund depot (225 Donald Street, Unit 134).

Getting Crafty

For those with a crafty side, Yarn Forward accepts new, hand-knit or crocheted hats, mitts and scarves for the Snowsuit Fund. They also keep a stash of customer-donated yarn that you can use for this purpose. Similarly, Wool Tyme keeps a yarn stash and collects blankets for Project Linus.

Ottawa area hospitals also accept knitted and crocheted newborn hats, as well as blankets and sleepers.  Details vary between hospitals - call the volunteer office at your local hospital for more info.

Young Moms

St. Mary's Home provides a wide range of support for young moms, from prenatal education and health care to ongoing support for mom, dad, and baby. Usually, they accept donations of used baby and maternity clothing (now, if I could just decide whether I'm done with those oh-so-sexy panel jeans).  Currently, however, their donation room is undergoing renovations, so they are directing donations down the street to Chez Mère Bruyère, where they will also be available to the St. Mary's moms.

So there are just a few ideas, what are yours?

Sasha is mom to 2-year-old Miss Bea, and 4 month old Baby Em.  Her ramblings can also be found on her blog, The Rambling Stroller.