Playing with boxes on Boxing Day

by Brie After the flurry that is Christmas Day one thing is for certain. Our house is filled with boxes. Little boxes that toy trains came in. Big boxes  that gifts from out of town came in. There are lots and lots of boxes.

My kids are past the stage where they are happy to just sit and play with a box instead of the toy that came with it. But they will happily play with boxes, once they are presented in the right way.

Boxes offer an awesome creative potential. Here are some of the activities we have done with them in the last month:

- Made a holiday wreath for the front door. I cut out two large rings and had the kids decorate them by gluing shapes cut out from coloured construction paper, like white snowmen and green trees. The finished products were hung on ribbon and suspended to a nail on the front door.

- Cut out letters of the alphabet and used them to create words with my 4 year old. I got this idea afetr volunteering in her kindergarten class one day and observing the kids working on their "at" family words. Now we have a bunch of "at" words we can make out of cardboard, moving letters around easily to create new words.

- Cut out three holes in the biggest boxes I could find. The boy enjoyed painting his. And then he pulled it over his head and chased me down the hallway. There is nothing like a box for some good robot/monster fun.

How do your kids like to play with boxes?

Brie is the mom of a 4 year old daughter “the girl” and 2 old son “the boy”. You can read her blog at Capital Mom.

Celebrating Christmas

It's Christmas!  Time for family, friends and favorite traditions. Here's what some of the Kids in the Capital contributors will be busy doing the next few days. Amy I've been married for three years now and this will be our first Christmas with our own child, so we're still spending time trying to figure out what our traditions are going to be. Joe's family is spread out across the country, and mine is a bit, well, complicated.

We have decided that watching A Muppet Family Christmas while decorating our tree is going to be one of our traditions. We have also adopted one of my favourite of my family's traditions - Christmas Eve used to be my favourite day, especially as I got older, my Grandparents would stop at our favourite Chinese restaurant and get takeout before heading over to our house where we would eat and open a few of our presents that night. Stockings were the main thing on Christmas morning, and then a turkey dinner that night.

Boxing Day things switch to my Dad's house, and there are a lot of us - Dad has five kids and nine grandkids - we do another gift exchange, have another turkey, and try to keep up with the score if there's a World Junior hockey game on. Because the World Junior Hockey Championships are one of my absolute favourite parts of the holiday season.

This year will be a bit different, we're heading to Northwestern Ontario to spend Christmas with Joe's family, so we'll be taking part in different traditions and missing a few things that I'm used to, but probably adding a few to our own list as we decide what Maggie is going to remember as 'Christmas.'

Lara We like to start our traditions on Christmas Eve when the kids get to open one present - a pair of Christmas PJs that they get to put on right away.  Then we set out cookies along with Santa's beverage of choice... a beer.

Christmas morning begins with the opening of stockings which are left in the hallway outside bedrooms.  Generally they are opened on mom and dad's bed before we all head down to see what else Santa brought.

Around 9:30 the real chaos begins as the first set of grandparents (and aunt) arrive for more presents and Christmas lunch, and then off we go to see the other grandparents for more presents, and more eating.

It's a busy day but fun. And I'm hoping to make @missfish's 12 hours of Christmas a tradition with hourly iphone photos to commemorate the day!

Sara Our traditions start on Christmas Eve with dinner at my parents house.  When we arrive home the boys put out cookies and milk for Santa as well as reindeer food, carrots, and a magic key, outside.  Our Santa comes in the front door using his special key instead of the chimney.  While the boys are in the bath a mysterious little pajama elf hides matching pajamas and a Christmas story somewhere in their bedrooms.  The firefighter is absolutely fascinated by the elf and looks around in wonderment trying to figure out how he got into the house without anyone noticing.  He will cup his hands to his ears to see if he could hear him tip-toeing.  The pajama elf is actually a tradition we've borrowed from my best friends family.  Apparently it gets harder each year for the pajama elf to sneak into the kids rooms.

Our Christmas mornings with our boys resemble, very closely, the Christmas mornings I remember as a little girl.  Whoever wakes up first comes into mom and dad's room until the entire family is awake.  One of us heads downstairs to get the camera and video camera ready (and turn on coffee!) while the boys wait (impatiently) to come down the stairs.  In our pajamas we open our stockings, taking turns so that we can open boxes and admire every-one's gifts.  We make Santa Claus oatmeal (whipped dream hat and beard with raisin and cherry eyes and nose) for breakfast and my dad is always kind enough to bake a braided wreath.  Since the year I was pregnant I have cooked Christmas dinner and our entire extended family starts arriving in the late morning.  This is the first Christmas we'll celebrate in our new house and we can't wait!

Sasha In our house, Christmas morning always started with stockings, followed by breakfast of peameal bacon and pancakes. Then, after opening presents we would pack-up and ship off to Grandma & Grandpa's house for the traditional turkey dinner.  With a family so new, and extended family now far away, I hope be sowing the seeds of some new traditions this year: if the weather is good I want to take the girls out to P11 in the greenbelt, where I am told the chickadees are so forthright that they will land on your hand, even if you don't have any seed with you!

Brie Christmas Eve dinner will be the beginning of much food and merriment over the next twenty-four hours at our house. That night we will eat, drink and the kids will open three presents (a holiday book and pjs for each of them) before bed.

But it won't be until the kids go to sleep that any actual presents will appear under our tree. This is partly due to the awesomeness of seeing the kids surprised faces when they suddenly see presents under the tree and partly because I know my kids. My 4 year old in particular would want to open them all immediately. This is the kid that opened the present she bought me from the school store while standing in entrance hall the moment she arrived home.

Stockings will be opened Christmas morning, but since my kids wake early (hello 5am) presents will have to wait until everyone is awake. We will probably make our now traditional walk to the local Starbucks for more coffee and some fresh air. This year we will be having a big dinner with our visiting family, as well as a friend and her family.

This is how we'll be spending our Christmas. What will you be doing?

Christmas stockings

by Lara

I love Christmas traditions and one of my favourites has always been putting up our stockings every year.

Our stockings were extra special because my mother made us all gorgeous needle-pointed stockings and I treasure it (and love to show it off!)

I'm not a needle-pointer but my mother and sister are coming to the rescue and creating some for us all (a work still in progress given how quickly our family grew ;) For now I have purchased some special stockings from a local crafter called Rikrak (which no longer seems to be in business at this update - check out these instead,) because special stockings are a really important part of Christmas for me.

As you all know, Santa doesn't do things the same way in all houses.  When I was a kid he brought us each one small gift to our stockings. I always loved the idea of full and overflowing stockings - Santa indulged and our house is full of big and overflowing stockings on Christmas mornings now! I love finding all the little treasures in my stocking and watching others find theirs too!

What about you - do you have stockings at your house? Does Santa fill them to the brim or bring a couple of Christmas oranges (or a pieces of coal? ;)

Lara is mom to 4 year old Kiernan and 1 year old twins Quinn and Juliette. You can read her blog at Gliding Through Motherhood.

Favorite holiday movies for the family

Are you looking for some great family movies to watch over the holidays? So are we! Here is a list of some of the favorite holiday movies from our Kids in the Capital contributors. In Sara's house the holiday wouldn't be completely without "Bob the Builder: A Christmas to Remember".  The hour-long special, which is almost 10 years old, is a holiday musical featuring the voice of Elton John.  Bob, Wendy, and their 'crew' work together to prepare for their town's annual Christmas concert, starring rock band "Lennie and the Lazers".  The movie is best-suited to toddlers and preschoolers, especially those fascinated by construction equipment and music.  Like Sara's 4.5 and 2.5 year olds.

Angela says that it just isn't Christmas in her home without "A Christmas Story".  The movie has fights, fear, swearing...the inherent sense of naughty that mixes with nice in this movie is unsurpassed. And no child has ever wanted something with the passion that Ralphie wanted that Red Ryder carbine-action, 200-shot, range model air rifle. Every adult remembers that feeling. For Angela, it was gymnastic Barbie. The high bars one. With the glittery body suit. The nostalgic sense of longing that they have recreated in that film is near magical for her.

Joanne and her kids are fans of "Mickey’s Twice Upon a Christmas",  a story book of sorts featuring 5 different stories with different Disney characters.  Her kids (8, 5 and ever her big kid of 36) love every one of them.   What Joanne loves about this DVD is that the situations are very life like – competition between friends, kids with a bad case of the gimmies and even what to do when parents embarrass you.    In particular her kids really enjoy “Twice Upon a Christmas” and so does she!

Joanne also recommends checking out the many different French movies on TVA (channel 10 in Ottawa and channel 4 in Gatineau) playing during the holidays. Cinéma cadeau is special French programming of various movies and specials during the holidays – this week they are showing "Joyeux Noël Madagascar" (French version of "Merry Madagascar"), "L’ère de glace – la fonte" (French version of "Ice Age – the Meltdown") and "Annie Brocoli dans les fonds marins".    There is always a great selection of age appropriate French movies and holiday specials to watch – some are French productions and others are French translations.

Amy's favourite holiday special has always been "The Muppet Family Christmas". Not the "Muppet Christmas Carol", not the new "Letters to Santa" thing, but the "Muppet Family Christmas" where the Muppets go up to Fozzie's mother's farm house to surprise her for Christmas and there they are joined by the Sesame Street gang and the Fraggles. Amy feels very lucky to find a husband who shares her love of the Muppets, and they plan on making it a family tradition to watch this classic while decorating the tree. And, of course, you can't have Christmas without The Grinch.

At Vicky's house one of their favourite movies to watch this time of year is Caillou's Holiday Movie (although she won't lie, it does get played often throughout the year!) It shows different holiday traditions around the world, and Caillou learns about sharing and giving at Christmas time. There are some cute songs in it as well, and the kids really enjoy it. Also on her list is The Grinch who Stole Christmas and The Polar Express, movies she hopes to make a yearly tradition!

As a family who also celebrates Chanukah , which took place earlier in December, she was excited to see the copy of "Shalom Sesame Chanukah" DVD her mom picked up at the Superstore. It's a great video to help explain the holiday traditions to the kids, and it's something they'll look forward to seeing next year too!

Do you have any favorite movies you will be watching this holiday?