I like the idea of getting my kids whatever they want, providing them with all the toys that I never had growing up. I want them to be happy. But then I think about it and realize that more toys isn't the way to make them happy. I want them to understand that Christmas isn't about the stuff, it's about the memories. I want them to appreciate what they have and know that they're lucky because they have a bed to sleep in and roof over their head, toys to play with and each other.
They are kids though and kids like stuff. So what now? How do I give them stuff without giving them too much?
It was a few years ago I was reading posts on a pregnancy/baby forum that I came across a little idea about Christmas. A way to make it simple but special for the kids. It's something that we've adopted for our family and you might want to as well.
It's easy, and it rhymes. Here it is:
Something you want,
something you need.
Something to wear,
something to read.
Every Christmas my kids will be getting 4 gifts from us: a toy of some sort, something practical, a new outfit and a book. We add in a new pair of pajamas to be opened Christmas Eve, because I love that tradition, and a gift from Santa.
My kids are still a bit young but we will be explaining this to them as they get older and plan to stick to these 4 things to keep Christmas simple but special. I really hope this will help them understand that Christmas isn't just about the stuff and while it's nice to get toys it's nicer to spend time with family and friends.
I would love to hear about any traditions your family has for keeping things simple at Christmas.
Kamerine is mom to 3 year old Little J and 1 year old Baby K. She documents her life with two toddlers, a husband and a cat at followk.blogspot.ca.